Why “Pay-What-Feels-Right” ?
Tips if you wonder what to give
For some of us, the freedom to give comes with just a bit of anxiety: what if I give too little, or too much?
If this is the case for you, I’ve put down two tips you might find helpful. I share this in a playful spirit. There is no “right” or “wrong” amount, so take this lightly, relax, and have fun. :-)
Tip 1: Listen to your heart (not the “shoulds”)
Here is a practice that I find helpful: the right amount is the one where I feel I’ve let my heart speak, rather than some voice of what I should be doing (anxiety often brings out the “shoulds” for me). Let me illustrate:
Tip 2: A game!
How about if your body gave you the answer to the question, “What’s the amount where I feel I have given neither too little, nor too much?”
Perhaps you are familiar with constellation work and the wisdom from our body and emotions it helps us access. If you feel in a playful mood, you can try this:
If this all sounds complicated...
... and you wonder why you didn’t just pay the fixed price :-) just go with the first number that pops up in your head. :-)
And last but not least, if you want to know more about the whole « gift economy » concept, I very much recommend Charles Eisenstein’s book, Sacred Economics.